Everyone suffers from awkward situations once in a while and then spend time regretting over their actions later. We sometimes do not like who we are as a person and how we react to certain situations. It is continuous learning for becoming a better person and having an essence where people start to feel that they cannot shake you. To be that person, you will have to first discover your true self and accept yourself for being who you are at ground level. You need to get comfortable in your body. Many of us fail to have idle control over our emotions and lack the presence of mind. Not having control over our own lives can lead us to make rash decisions and lose control of situations, people, and emotions. You learn to be a better version of you, here are the things you will require:
To be an elegant person outside, you first need to picture yourself as an elegant person in the inside. To do this, you have to start thinking of yourself in a way you wish to be perceived by other people. It is a self-developing process where all you have to do is create an image of yourself, and everything will slowly fall into place.
You can display your inner elegance with your gracefulness. Being graceful is inbuilt but require you to be much calmer and composed while doing things. When you are grateful, you move slowly but in confidence. You have a positive aura around, and when you speak, you speak with charm, dignity, and beauty. You get comfortable in doing things without being too pushy towards your body.
Never let yourself fall into any emotional games. Nor do you need to manipulate to get what you want. All that is required is being in control of who you are and owning your personality. When you have self-control and have emotional intelligence, people will view you as a smart person.
Your clothes also represent your personality as long as you are wearing them. Have a set of clothing which represents your true self. There is plenty of fashion to choose from which can suit who you are. It should represent the class, sex appeal and professionalism, which not being too flashy. You need to be careful of not letting your clothing overtake your personality but complement it.
Practice your speech and learn to use the right words to communicate. Be simple and rational while you talk with others. This might not help you in creating more connections, but it will bring you in touch with the right people who do not like to get indulged in gibberish.
Speak the words you want to speak without fear. What others think of you is the least of your concern. Instead, focus on what is more important in the conversation. If the talks are not suiting you at all, feel free to exit the conversation. Do not let your ego handle your plan and act according to what you stand for. Let people know that you are not okay with being treated below you standards without being afraid.